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Men’s sexual arousal pattern is like a microwave oven. And way to put sex on slow boil is to move slowly and wait until you’ve grown close enough to have good sexual communication. It can make a man run for the hills Here’s a study I hated to read. It’s as if he is looking for some princess of a woman whose sex will tell him he’s in love.
Groundbreaking work by David Buss at the University of California, Los Angeles, showed that the more sexual partners a man has had, the more he perceives “diminished attractiveness” in each new mate. And you can be sure, if he’s pressuring for sex on the first date, this man has had many partners.
Therefore, in one study, participants who moved fast sexually, had the worst relationship outcomes later. And in one study called “the passion turning point” study, participants who expressed feelings of love and/or had conversations about commitment before that first-time sex, found the event to be positive passion turning point.
The sex made them feel even more connected and secure.
I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.Someone created the myth that ‘sexual chemistry’ is necessary before couples can move to a committed relationship.