There is no game-playing, which creates more consistent stability in terms of the intensity of emotion; gone are the ecstatic highs and despairing lows that defined the unhealthy relationships of the past.As such, real love requires that both people risk their hearts to form a bond of true intimacy.The game is emotionally intense but ultimately unsatisfying.The bottom line is that real intimacy never occurs. It’s temporarily painful but there’s no long-term risk involved.So the next time you watch a romantic comedy and find yourself doubting if you love your wonderful, supportive, honest, loving partner enough, read over this list and see if your anxiety finds containment as you redefine what love really is.More at Your Tango: Facebook Syndrome: Do You Have the Disease?If not understood properly, the one in the longing position can easily believe that she or he is “in love.” If the object of the longing, often called “the beloved”, does reciprocate, “the lover” often runs the other way.
Most of my clients focus on one missing area – sometimes to the point of obsession – and it’s often an attribute that never bothered her before they were engaged.
One of my clients recently asked me to define real love.
So here is my list of the beliefs, attributes, and precepts that define real love (with the caveat that I’m not sure that anyone understands love in its totality! Real love is a conscious choice that often employs the rational part of our brains.
You genuinely like each other (even though you might not like everything about your partner). Real love is more concerned with how you can give to your partner than what you can get from him or her. Real love is a spiritual practice in that your focus is not how you can change your partner to alleviate your anger, pain, or annoyance but how you can assume full responsibility for those feelings and find healthy and constructive ways to attend to them.
When you change in positive ways, the relationship will positively change as well. You’re not expected to know how to give and receive real love at the onset of marriage, but are expected to work at it so that over the course of your life together your capacity to love grows.And it certainly isn’t a healthy model on which to base a marriage!
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Bear in mind the specifics of this future projection are unique to the girl and my relationship with her. But for noobs out there, it’s a template you can work from to create a special moment with the girl. We’re very slightly drunk Her: start from underwear.. Masters of the Universe 😀 They have pictures of the hero characters Her: great.. Your breasts against my chest, your stomach and hips touching mine your lips very close to mine. though I think your lounge is always full of people 🙂 Me: shall I continue? Then I walk back to you I slowly push your shoulders, pushing you gently backwards against the side of the sofa You are biting your lip, anticipating You are waiting for me to kiss you I lean closer, almost touching. When I push in hard, you feel like my cock is going all through your body and out your mouth enjoying? Me: heh 😉 Suddenly I pull out of you Abruptly you feel empty all you can think about is “I want more” I grab your hair and pull you towards me, turning you around, and forcing you to your knees Again, it’s rough, violent, forcefull. You don’t even think You wrap your fingers around my cock, with a big smile of anticipation then you take me into your mouth At the beginning you are too impatient. So you are sucking hard, aggressively, up and down I put my hand on top of your head, which you like. … continue reading »