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She knew that "getting back" at her husband wasn't going to produce empowerment or healing, but nevertheless began a disastrous affair.
She subsequently discovered that the man was only interested in a narcissistic conquest, and he quickly dumped her.
They spoke on the phone frequently and lingered around afterward working on the project.
Suddenly we found ourselves talking, feeling like we had known each other for years." The affair "just "happened," George added. Another one sounding a bit more "strategic" came from Jan, a 41 year-old lawyer.
She told me that her affair was a "marriage stabilizer..and discreet, a perfect solution for me." She decided it was a rational alternative to the disruption of divorce.
They're seen as a life-style choice; an option for men and women yearning for excitement or intimacy that's lacking or has dulled during their marriage.
Given that new reality, I put together what I've learned about psychology of affairs -- their meaning and their consequences for people in our current culture. We ended up in bed, as well as a lot of other places! The liberating and compelling feeling from this kind of affair, though, can mask hidden emotional conflicts.Rachel told me that a previous therapy had helped her recognize her collusion in becoming so subordinate in the marriage.